I started psychotherapy, known as talk therapy, when I lost my beloved, younger sister. Yes, we were different in age, lifestyles, goals, personality, one parent, and core values, yet God connected us by His special design. 

We'd recently touched hearts on a deeper level when I learned of a heart-felt trauma she'd never shared, but prior to, we had a misunderstanding and separated. 

She struggled with sexual identity, sobriety, and inner wounds, as we all have been traumatized, at least once. 

I also shared a very deep, dark, and troubling scar, which placed us on a beautiful path to renewed sisterhood. 

I then became aware that the birthday gift I sent wouldn't reach her. She responded to my delivery text, called, and we were sharing happiness, singing, and embracing life, as she was planning for a hosted party. We held on tight to one another by phone, with love and best wishes, then 

she became very quiet..... 

Her responses became slower and slower. I could hear laughter and music, but I had no idea what was happening. I felt she was distracted, so I sent my love and hung up.

Hours later, my beloved Aunt Dee called to say she was gone. 

Oh noooooo..... 

Her life suddenly ended, but we had only just begun! She wanted me there, so I could celebrate life with her..... 

That day changed me and every moment after....

We'd already lost Dad and later, I lost Mrs. Doubtfirey. 

I was TOTALLY DEVASTED........

but later, I was somewhat comforted. 

My heart wouldn't have been able to watch her expire.

Thankfully, our differences were resolved, as we'd lovingly reconnected. So that loss caused my quest to begin... 

Make peace with all of my loved ones.

Differences shouldn't separate family; each member of any group has special designs and allocated talents, destined inside, regardless of small disparities.

Grief led me to a journey of discovery, to appreciate, and IGNITE God-given talents. 

We each have something "PURPOSE" to offer "SOMEONE."